Don't Allow Yourself to Be Controlled by These 5 Things (Motivational Speech)
Don't allow yourself to be controlled by this five things
Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances
Living at the mercy of what happens to them
Living at the mercy of other people
Not living in the present because
They are stuck in the present of their past
If you want to live a great life
Don't allow yourself to be controlled by
Any of these things
Number one, your past
Number two, other people's opinions and judgments
Number three, limited beliefs you project on yourself
Number four, relationships
And number five, money
Number one, don't allow your past to control you present or your future life
Whatever happened, you must let it go
Leave the pain of your past behind so it cannot ruin your future
Leave the darkness of your past behind so it cannot block the
Light of your bright future
Your past is gone whatever happened
Whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case
Reliving the events will never do you any good
If someone did you wrong, the only way you can win
Is if you let go and move on
If you live in hate, they win
If you live in the victim story, they win
If you want to win, you must focus on building your future
And start right now
Release that weight from your back so you can be free
Don't allow events from he past, which are now gone
To ruin this moment, which is perfect
This moment which is now to enjoy
Which is ready for you to live fully
Number two, don't allow other people's opinions
And judgements to control the direction of your life
The need to fit in and feel wanted
Can 'cause you to travel down paths you don't want to travel
People pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs
Before you do anything, ask yourself
Am I doing this because I want to do it?
Or because of my fear of judgement from others if I don't?
You were born unique for a reason
You were born to stand out
To be appreciated and loved for who you are
Don't dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other people's lifes
Shine bright as you are
Those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you
Number three, don't allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs
Now, a warning with this one
These beliefs may be conscious, but more than likely they are unconscious
They may be unconscious limitations
That have been conditioned in you from a young age
And throughout your entire life
By listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream
Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up
There is nothing you cannot do
Nothing you cannot have
And no one you cannot become if you believe in yourself
If you believe anything is possible, guess what?
Anything is possible
When you change your belief from limited to unlimited, your potential is unlimited
Imagine what you could achieve if you lived your life as though anything is possible
As though miracles are a standard requirement of every day
As the saying goes, "when there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm"
When you have nothing inside holding you back
There is nothing outside that can hold you back either
Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset
The instant you decide to see everything as a gift
When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse
The very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything in it is as should be
And know that fighting what is, is insane
Number four, relationships, a touchy subject
But, if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete
Then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you
Or unhappiness if the relationship is not going well
I'm not suggesting to avoid relationships
There is no force on earth that is greater than love and connection
I am talking about those who can't live if they aren't in a relationship
Those who will be with just about anyone, including all the wrong ones
Just to avoid spending a moment being single
What I am saying is, to develop enough mental strength
That you get to a point where you don't need others to make you happy
You are just as happy being alone, as you are in a relationship
And number five, this is what controls the majority of humans on the planet
Can you guess what it is? Money
This does not mean you shouldn't want abundance
It doesn't mean money is evil
You know as well as I do what great things you can do
And how many people you can help with money
What this means is, do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money
If you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved
You've just made the wrong decision
What you will find, is that when you follow your heart
And you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others
Every single time when you follow your intuition and truly give from your soul
Then, the money will come
And it will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money
So, challenge yourself to live the life you want to live
Free from being controlled by anything
Find your freedom
Live fully
Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances
Living at the mercy of what happens to them
Living at the mercy of other people
Not living in the present because
They are stuck in the present of their past
If you want to live a great life
Don't allow yourself to be controlled by
Any of these things
Number one, your past
Number two, other people's opinions and judgments
Number three, limited beliefs you project on yourself
Number four, relationships
And number five, money
Number one, don't allow your past to control you present or your future life
Whatever happened, you must let it go
Leave the pain of your past behind so it cannot ruin your future
Leave the darkness of your past behind so it cannot block the
Light of your bright future
Your past is gone whatever happened
Whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case
Reliving the events will never do you any good
If someone did you wrong, the only way you can win
Is if you let go and move on
If you live in hate, they win
If you live in the victim story, they win
If you want to win, you must focus on building your future
And start right now
Release that weight from your back so you can be free
Don't allow events from he past, which are now gone
To ruin this moment, which is perfect
This moment which is now to enjoy
Which is ready for you to live fully
Number two, don't allow other people's opinions
And judgements to control the direction of your life
The need to fit in and feel wanted
Can 'cause you to travel down paths you don't want to travel
People pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs
Before you do anything, ask yourself
Am I doing this because I want to do it?
Or because of my fear of judgement from others if I don't?
You were born unique for a reason
You were born to stand out
To be appreciated and loved for who you are
Don't dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other people's lifes
Shine bright as you are
Those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you
Number three, don't allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs
Now, a warning with this one
These beliefs may be conscious, but more than likely they are unconscious
They may be unconscious limitations
That have been conditioned in you from a young age
And throughout your entire life
By listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream
Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up
There is nothing you cannot do
Nothing you cannot have
And no one you cannot become if you believe in yourself
If you believe anything is possible, guess what?
Anything is possible
When you change your belief from limited to unlimited, your potential is unlimited
Imagine what you could achieve if you lived your life as though anything is possible
As though miracles are a standard requirement of every day
As the saying goes, "when there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm"
When you have nothing inside holding you back
There is nothing outside that can hold you back either
Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset
The instant you decide to see everything as a gift
When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse
The very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything in it is as should be
And know that fighting what is, is insane
Number four, relationships, a touchy subject
But, if you are always needing another to be happy, to feel complete
Then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you
Or unhappiness if the relationship is not going well
I'm not suggesting to avoid relationships
There is no force on earth that is greater than love and connection
I am talking about those who can't live if they aren't in a relationship
Those who will be with just about anyone, including all the wrong ones
Just to avoid spending a moment being single
What I am saying is, to develop enough mental strength
That you get to a point where you don't need others to make you happy
You are just as happy being alone, as you are in a relationship
And number five, this is what controls the majority of humans on the planet
Can you guess what it is? Money
This does not mean you shouldn't want abundance
It doesn't mean money is evil
You know as well as I do what great things you can do
And how many people you can help with money
What this means is, do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money
If you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved
You've just made the wrong decision
What you will find, is that when you follow your heart
And you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others
Every single time when you follow your intuition and truly give from your soul
Then, the money will come
And it will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money
So, challenge yourself to live the life you want to live
Free from being controlled by anything
Find your freedom
Live fully
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