Divorce Hits Home

(Evon JR Brockett)
Wait, divorce hits home, wait
Sometimes it can affect your kids, the house, your friends, your spouse, and all that you love to this day
I'm not gonna lie, sometimes it can drive hate
But do you really want that in your space?
One day you could be a loving family and the next day you could have your house for sale
Arguments start rambling in the house and nobody prevails
One swing to another punch and somebody's in jail wanting a bail
But was all that fighting and arguing really worth it?

Divorce hits home
By that I mean seeing what a separation can do to a home
Not only the home but the people in the home
I'm talking about a wife, husband, child, cousin, or anyone else that's living inside or outside
All the yelling, frustration, separation, feelings or feeling alone, and never knowing when your parents are gonna get along

You know that kids have feelings too
They could feel like they are the reason for their parents relationship ending
Then compare their parents to their friends parents
It all started from home
Whatever you do at home could affect what you do outside when you roam

I did not forget about parents
One day you could be with someone, it feels perfect
Then the next day they can change into someone you never even knew about
To the point where you say, you were in love with who they were yesterday but not now
Then conflict possibly starts in the house

It could include domestic violence, arguments, disagreements and can end in stress
You don't want your kids seeing both of you hitting each other or spitting on each other or worse
If they saw that then in the near future they could do the same thing or worse
It could haunt your kids for life, please don't make it worse

Whatever the parents say and do their kids may do and say
I guess I am saying for you to watch what you do and say but at the end of the day all I am saying is that parents have a huge influence on their children
It's your duty to raise them in the best way you can
Yes, it will be hard, it won't be easy but the real question is will it be worth it?
Is it really worth ditching commitment and regretting it later and seeing your child at age 33 and saying "Who are you?"
You can prevent that with your action
Stop showing that not caring is your passion
Stop making terrible choices affect your marriage
10 minutes of pleasure doesn't equal your marriage
Even if you don't have kids it shows infidelity
I bet if your partner did the same thing you would be mad
In life you need to know your priorities like showing up to your kids graduation, time duration
It's funny how in life we spend a lot of time pointing the finger at others and forget about ourselves
Sometimes we are the problem, we just gotta fix it, change your thinking
Majority of the time we spend focusing on the past instead of the now
What can you do now?
How can you show love?
That one decision to change your perspective on the problem could change your marriage for the better
But are you willing to change your perspective and put all the hate behind

It's one thing to hate and another to love
It may take more energy to hate than love so why do you hate?
At least when you do so have in mind the kids you may have or the memories you may have made with that special spouse
What you do now can affect a lifetime of regret or happiness
So choose wisely
Don't only think of you but the people it affects
You only have 1 life so why not make it right?
(Evon JR Brockett)